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Some Christmas pictures….

This first one is our family at my father in love’s home…..

The girls playing tennis at Papa’s house using Auntie Kell’s Wii….

The love of my life….

Cousins playing :)

Little r with her “favorite Auntie” Paige

The kids playing in Papa & Grandma’s play room…..

Visiting at Papa & Grandma’s house….

The girls playing at Grammy & Grandpa’s house….

Ice cream for breakfast!!!!! Our traditional Christmas morning ice cream parfaits…..the kids ALL look forward to this one day a year treat at Grammy’s house :)

Some of the gifts and fun from Grammy’s house….

H thinks its fun to “wrap” her 17 year old cat for a Christmas gift :)

Willow, our 17 year old kitty….this year we celebrated her 3rd “last Christmas” ……she’s getting so old that we never know when she may pass away…..

Goofy girl…..at our house….D and R are putting music on H’s new mp3 player

Putting music on H’s new MP3 player is a family affair….

R was very excited to have gotten a bike for Christmas, but was too tired to do much more than stand by it :)

This is not the best pic but it does show how suprised r was to get a new bike for Christmas :)

Handsome boy…..

H telling us that she knew that we had gotten her an MP3 player because of the shape…..

r opening the gift from M (the kids started exchanging names for one another last year….cute idea :))

R’s gift from r….a Toby Mac cd

M’s gift from H

r reading the CHRISTmas story from Luke 2 from the Bible…..a tradition that D and I started when we were newlyweds, and now our children are taking turns to read the story each year :)

Thanksgiving….

I know that I have said this before (probably a few times :)) but Thanksgiving is definitely one of my favorite holidays….my absolute favorite is Resurrection Sunday, and a very close second favorite would be Thanksgiving.   To me it is a very contemplative time of year…..a time when I am much more mindful of what/whom I am thankful for.   With a broken family (both D and I come from divorced parents, and my mom abandoned our family about 8 years ago) we rarely know from year to year what Thanksgiving will hold for us.  We have some VERY dear friends that we enjoy spending the day with,  they are one of our “God families” and neither of them have any family in the area (both of their sets of parents have passed away, and their siblings are spread out all over the U.S.) so we enjoy spending the day with them when we are able to.   So I always plan a menu for Thanksgiving, and then wait to see what happens……well, I planned my menu on Monday afternoon….

Thanksgiving 2008 Menu

 roasted turkey
ham
slow cooker sweet potatoes and apples
mashed potatoes and gravy
stuffing
D’s special peas
cranberry sauce
green salad
relish tray
pumpkin pie
chocolate pecan pie

I had sent an email to D’s mom and family and asked them if they would like to join us for Thanksgiving, then on Tuesday I got a call from D’s mom and she was calling to invite us to her house……SO, I ditched my menu plan again this year, and will enjoy the meal with our family.  I do get to take dessert, so I think I’m going to make the pies, and POSSIBLY an apple dish of some sort (something that is not pie and that isn’t quite as sweet).

What is your Thanksgiving menu going to include?  Do you do the traditional turkey and stuffing or do you do something less traditional?

I DO get to cook for Christmas this year, and am trying to figure out what to do for that, we will have 12 here for Christmas Day dinner.   Last year I did a beautiful roasted pork loin.   The year before that my father-in-love and D’s step mom hosted Christmas at their house (which was the tradition until last year….in 2006 the placecards were passed onto the next generation, and so last year (2007) I got to do Christmas here!  It was SOOOOO exciting!  I LOVED it!   Anyhow in 2006 we had lasagna.  I’m seriously thinking about doing chicken enchiladas this year…..we’ll see :)

Quotes from my son….

“I like the fall decorations, they are the best part of fall”…….and we have had so much going on lately (and our furniture has changed since last fall) that I haven’t gotten our fall decorations out and put up yet.  I’m not like so many others that put them up automatically on Sept. 1, or Oct. 1 or whatever, I like to do it when our weather changes too cooler temps.  Well, this past couple of weeks, we are seeing a lot more days in the   the 65-75 range than we are the 80s-90s……SO, tonight after the kids have gone to bed (IF D is feeling up to it later tonight…it does mean he has to get up in the rafters of the garage) I will have D get the fall decorations down from the rafters, and tomorrow after the kids have finished their school work, we will put up our fall decorations.  M’s birthday is this weekend, so it would be GREAT if I had those up before his friends and Papa and Grandma come over for pizza and cake on Sunday.

My boy is turning 13 !!!!!!   I can hardly believe it!   It seems like just yesterday that he was my precious little newborn that was born on a schedule!  (No kidding….he was born at 12:15 pm, and nursed immediately after he was born, then again wanted to be nursed at 3 pm, then again at 6 pm, and again at 9 pm…….all the way through until he was probably9 months or so old those were his eating time/nursing times…..as he got older, he adapted his mealtimes to our mealtimes but when he was nursing exclusively he ate at 12, 3, 6, & 9 around the clock.   Made it VERY nice for planning to go out and do things without baby, and for D and I to have datenights, etc.  :)   The girls all always went with us.  I’m not one for scheduling my babies, I demand fed them, but I did like having the predicatability of M’s nursing schedule! :)

Just wanted to take a moment to wish all of my readers a blessed year for 2008.     I have many goals that I want to accomplish this year, and will be writing more about those as the days go by this year.

My first goal, that I am already 3 days into is to read the whole Bible this year….2008.   I’ve been a believer for 20 years (as of last night :))  and have never once read through the entire Bible.   I spend time in the Word on a regular basis for Bible studies, preparation for Sunday School lessons, and teaching my own children, but I’ve never actually read through the entire Bible.   I’ve set this goal in the past, and normally get as far as Numbers or Deuteronomy, and then I lose my momentum.     This time around, I am using Blue Letter Bible’s bible reading plan with accountability helps

I am using the “Old Testament and New Testament together” plan.

Would anyone else like to join me on this venture?

Well, off to get ready for bed……will post more tomorrow! :)

Some Christmas fun….

Our new Christmas video ….. for your enjoyment :)   You’ll want to turn up your speakers for this one….and it does take a minute to load.

Well, I’ve been wanting to do this for a couple of weeks now, but just couldn’t find the uninterrupted time to do it :)  Until today!   All 4 of the kiddos are out with friends’ today (they actually all spent the night last night with friends….woohoo, a night by ourselves :)) so I didn’t have to compete with their clutter to get these pictures taken, and other than doing some cleaning and getting ready for Christmas, I don’t have much else to do today :)

I haven’t taken nighttime pictures of outside yet, so I’ll post those separately…..but welcome to my home!  Please grab a mug and serve yourself some peppermint hot cocoa or some hot spiced cider, and enjoy the tour :)

Here’s what you see when you first walk into my home…..

In the entryway on the right….

and straight in front of you…..

Then if you turn right into the living room, this is the first view that you have…..

And here are a little more close up pictures of each of those areas……

My fireplace…..

And the Entertainment center with our main nativity set….

And the corner where our tree is….. Oh, and no, we don’t have gifts under there…to keep the focus off of the gifts we don’t put them out until Christmas Eve after all the children are in bed…..but they are all purchased and hidden away :)

Now on the opposite side of the room from the tree, entertainment center, etc, is our china cabinet and I display the “big” victorian village up there…..

Just to the left of the china cabinet here is the entry into our dining room……

And hanging above the table…..

And the kitchen……

I hope you enjoyed the tour……I LOVE our Christmasy home :)

Blessings!

Lori4squaremom :)

A fun Christmas meme….

 I found this over at Gail’s blog, and it looked fun, so I thought I’d share it with all of my readers :)

1. Wrapping paper or gift bags? Depends on the gift….for some gifts that are hard to wrap, I use gift bags….most others  wrapping paper.
2. Real tree or artificial? We bought our first artificial tree last year.   I have always loved real trees, but it got more and more stressful each year to have to keep cleaning up after a real tree and to spend the money on a real tree each year only to have to throw it out every year. 
3. When do you put up the tree? Honestly?   When we get to it.  Our plan was to start doing it the weekend of Thanksgiving now that we have an artificial tree, but this year we got super duper busy on Thanksgiving weekend, so it went up the first of December.
4. When do you take the tree down? When I get tired of it…..sometime between 12/26 and 1/1 or 1/2. 
5. Do you like eggnog? Mmmmmhmmmmm….YUMMOOOOOO :)  
6. Favorite gift received as a child?   Probably the cassette tape recorder that I got in 1977 for Christmas.   I used it to listen to cassettes as well as to record my favorite movies and listen to them over and over and over through the next 10-12 years :)
7. Do you have a nativity scene? Yes, we actually have several.   We bought a ceramic nativity set with a beautiful wooden stable our second year that we were married….we got it on clearance and it has always been special because it was the first thing that we bought for ourselves to decorate for Christmas.   When the kiddos came along, they always wanted to play with the nativity set, but we didn’t want them breaking our nice set, so we found a little resin set on 60% off in an after Christmas sale one year.  It is the one that we would put on a tabletop for the kiddos when they were younger…now it is in the kids’ bathroom each Christmas and they get to set it up however they wish.   I also have a nice little glass nativity set that I use “wherever”.   I also just ordered a very nice nativity set advent wreath, and that should be here in the next few days.  
8. Hardest person to buy for?  My inlaws…..parents in law, as well as sisters in law. 


9. Easiest person to buy for? my honey and the kiddos
10. Worst Christmas gift you ever received?   We’ve gotten some pretty bad ones through the years, but I think the WORST was a big wall hanging that had HUGE dried flowers on it, and big feathery things….it really was ugly, but to keep peace in the family, we had to keep it up until we moved into another house where there just wasn’t a place for it, and we lost it. 

11. Mail or email Christmas cards? We don’t do Christmas cards….I know, sad but true.  I do have a couple of very special friends that I send a card to, but not in bulk like most people do.
12. Favorite Christmas Movie? My all-time favorite is “White Christmas”, but I also really like “Miracle on 34th Street (the 1950s? version)
13. When do you start shopping for Christmas?  we don’t focus a whole lot on the gift giving, but we generally do our shopping, such as it is, in early December.
14. Have you ever recycled a Christmas present? yep, quite a few, actually
15. Favorite thing to eat at Christmas? We don’t really have a traditional Christmas dinner, but probably my favorite is the fudge that D and R and I make together, as well as our Christmas morning breakfast ice cream parfaits, and our family Christmas pastry.
16. Clear lights or colored on the tree? We actually use both….depends on my mood :)  This year we have clear on the tree and in the garlands and things inside of the house, and then we have colored on most everything outside except for our big huge shrub that the kids wanted clear on :)
17. Favorite Christmas song?  Breath of Heaven (I really prefer Amy Grant, but any artist will do), What a Strange Way to Save the World (prefer male artists on this one), and O Come Emmanuel 
18. Travel at Christmas or stay home? Well, we visit with inlaws, but the farthest that we have to travel is 40 minutes.
19. Can you name all of Santaâ??s reindeer? Yep…..dasher, dancer, prancer, vixen, comet, cupid, donner, and blitzen, and of course who can forget Rudolph :)
20. Angel on the tree top or a star? the angel that we bought our first Christmas together
21. Open the presents Christmas Eve or morning? Christmas morning after we read Luke 2 and have breakfast.
22. Most annoying thing about this time of year? grumpy, sad and annoyed store employees and people in general (the grumpy, sad, and annoyed ones :))
23. What I love most about Christmas? Celebrating Jesus and His gift to me!  and having D home for a week with us :) and getting to spend time together.

If you wish to play along, please leave me a comment with a link to your blog or with your answers :)

This poem (which I’ve seen several times over the past couple of years) came across my email inbox this morning and I thought it fitting to honor the families (some of which I read their blogs) that are not together this year due to service to our country in the military that gives selflessly to protect MY family and our rights to worship, homeschool, be free from terror, etc.    A special thank you to those men and women that are serving our country and our rights both here in the US as well as abroad!

A Different Christmas Poem

The embers glowed softly, and in their dim light,

I gazed round the room and I cherished the sight.

My wife was asleep, her head on my chest,

My daughter beside me, angelic in rest.

Outside the snow fell, a blanket of white,

Transforming the yard to a winter delight.

The sparkling lights in the tree I believe,

Completed the magic that was Christmas Eve.

My eyelids were heavy, my breathing was deep,

Secure and surrounded by love I would sleep.

In perfect contentment, or so it would seem,

So I slumbered, perhaps I started to dream.

The sound wasn’t loud, and it wasn’t too near,

But I opened my eyes when it tickled my ear.

Perhaps just a cough, I didn’t quite know, Then the

sure sound of footsteps outside in the snow.

My soul gave a tremble, I struggled to hear,

And I crept to the door just to see who was near.

Standing out in the cold and the dark of the night,

A lone figure stood, his face weary and tight.

A soldier, I puzzled, some twenty years old,

Perhaps a Marine, huddled here in the cold.

Alone in the dark, he looked up and smiled,

Standing watch over me, and my wife and my child.

“What are you doing?” I asked without fear,

“Come in this moment, it’s freezing out here!

Put down your pack, brush the snow from your sleeve,

You should be at home on a cold Christmas Eve!”

For barely a moment I saw his eyes shift,

Away from the cold and the snow blown in drifts..

To the window that danced with a warm fire’s light

Then he sighed and he said “Its really all right,

I’m out here by choice. I’m here every night.”

“It’s my duty to stand at the front of the line,

That separates you from the darkest of times.

No one had to ask or beg or implore me,

I’m proud to stand here like my fathers before me.

My Gramps died at ‘ Pearl on a day in December,”

Then he sighed, “That’s a Christmas ‘Gram always remembers.”

My dad stood his watch in the jungles of ‘ Nam ‘,

And now it is my turn and so, here I am.

I’ve not seen my own son in more than a while,

But my wife sends me pictures, he’s sure got her smile.

Then he bent and he carefully pulled from his bag,

The red, white, and blue… an American flag.

I can live through the cold and the being alone,

Away from my family, my house and my home.

I can stand at my post through the rain and the sleet,

I can sleep in a foxhole with little to eat.

I can carry the weight of killing another,

Or lay down my life with my sister and brother..

Who stand at the front against any and all,

To ensure for all time that this flag will not fall.”

“So go back inside,” he said, “harbor no fright,

Your family is waiting and I’ll be all right.”

“But isn’t there something I can do, at the least,

“Give you money,” I asked, “or prepare you a feast?

It seems all too little for all that you’ve done,

For being away from your wife and your son.”

Then his eye welled a tear that held no regret,

“Just tell us you love us, and never forget.

To fight for our rights back at home while we’re gone,

To stand your own watch, no matter how long.

For when we come home, either standing or dead,

To know you remember we fought and we bled.

Is payment enough, and with that we will trust,

That we mattered to you as you mattered to us.”

If you’d like to go and love on a couple of these families, please head over to Sandra’s and Michelle’s blogs :)

Ok, my honey is so sweet, he knew I would love this!    I would encourage you all to go and check this out…..

Merry Tossmas (I promise, this is good!)

Ok, last night on  our way home, D told me something that really irritated me!   First of all, I really despise the whole “PC …Politically correct” movement.   I think that we should be able to express our opinions and word things the way that WE want to,  and not the way that someone else says I should say it.   And the whole idea of being “culturally sensitive” drives me nuts!   The reason?   No one is sensitive to my being a white, Christian, stay at home, homeschooling mom.   I can be bashed all “they” want, but if I  have to be sensitive to others.   The latest “burr in my saddle” on this is that each month with my husband’s pay stub there is a newsletter from his employer.    Yesterday he noticed that his December 1 paystub’s newsletter had “Happy Holidays” as the header at the top.   When his co-worker called the HR gal that does the newsletter each month, she said that she had originally had Merry Christmas at the top, and that she changed it JUST BEFORE someone else in her office told her she needed to change it to Happy Holiday’s to be culturally sensitive/PC.    I was outraged!     I told D that if I were her (she is a Christian as well) I would have just left that part blank rather than putting the “Happy Holidays” thing up……..     No, I don’t have anything against “Happy Holidays” in a generic sense, but the fact that last year’s newsletter said Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, and this year it says Happy Holidays smacks of “political correctness”……the sad thing?   The majority of the employees in his company are Christian.

Ok, sorry!   Didn’t mean to “go off” but I had to voice this to someone  :)

Oh, I also am careful to say “Merry Christmas” to all of the Salvation Army bell ringers, and checkers at stores when they say “Happy Holidays” to me :)